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OK, here it goes. I've had a crush on this guy for weeks and I had no idea whether he even noticed me so I didn't really mind looking over his way every so often because I assumed that I wasn't even a blip on his raydar(sp?)
So tonight apparently my friends tell me I've been acting obvious for ages, they've been suspecting it for weeks and we're always looking at each other.
I don't think he was looking at me, I think he probably thinks I'm a weirdo for staring at him or something. But if they think he was looking back should I keep looking to try and catch him looking or talk to him or something? I have no idea what to do.
I'm really embarrased about being found out. How can I make my crushes less obvious -_- ugh...this is too stressful when I'm ill...
I don't wanna be obvious...
he stress is too much. The majority of you are guys, would you notice someone looking at you? I didn't think I was doing it that often....
I feel really self-concious now, I like having it to myself but now...I'm not sure. And it'll probably finish now and I'll like someone else! JUST as it comes out.
I'm so fickle....
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 Thu Oct 07, 2004 2:16 pm |
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Jump him.
He'll probably like it.
Either that, or go confront him. The longer you sit and stare at him (and he notices), the more he'll be weirded out.
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| Thu Oct 07, 2004 2:25 pm |
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Ahhhgghh! Angst! 
Has he noticed you staring? If he has, he may very well assume you're staring at him because you like him. If all you've been doing is looking, this shouldn't happen, but there's the off-chance he'll think you're some kind of stalker. Prevent that from happening, as female stalkers are for some reason, considered creepier than male stalkers.
From what I know however, only your friends seem to notice when you're acting the way you are now. It's unlikely he'll ever realize what's going on, unless someone informs him of it. Just do what Pepsi suggested back in the early 90's- Be young. Have fun.
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| Thu Oct 07, 2004 5:37 pm |
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Confront him. As you've heard a million times: what's the worse that could happen? He won't date you. Well, isn't that the same worse-case scenerio no matter what you do? Seems like appraoching him is the best thing you can do if you like the guy. And don't worry about being nervous. You'll be nervous no matter what, and he won't care one way or the other.
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| Thu Oct 07, 2004 6:00 pm |
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Post subject: Re: Argh Help!
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| dillpops wrote: |
raydar(sp?)
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Is that how it's spelled in the UK?
Anyways yeah I wish I caught a girl looking at me every once in a while. Oh well.
peace
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| Thu Oct 07, 2004 8:05 pm |
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Heh I've had the same problem but extend timeframe to about a year and a half. At least we're "friends" now...
I asked her to a movie today but she's grounded
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Edit: I highly doubt this is the place to ask for relationship help...people here are just too insane.
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| Thu Oct 07, 2004 9:35 pm |
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| Thu Oct 07, 2004 10:22 pm |
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All those staring contests from elementary school are coming back to haunt me now....
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| Fri Oct 08, 2004 2:07 am |
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Thanks guys, hey you are my family on the internet, of COURSE I'll ask for advice.
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| Fri Oct 08, 2004 4:01 am |
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well, i've never been good with girls, but if you do end up changinig your mind, heres what you do.
Make sure he's looking at you, but of course you can't notice, then
start picking your nose.
you'll have no wories he likes you after that.
but if you try talking to him and you still like him that might work.
or, a not
Do you like me?
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that works everytime
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| Sat Oct 09, 2004 7:20 am |
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lol Reminds me of the time I asked for advice on this board. Got nothing. Hope it goes better for you than it did for me lol
On to actual advice...like they said, the worst thing that could happen is rejection ,but if oyu neevr bring it up with him, it'll never happen anyway...it's not like you're a guy asking a girl out, and risking getting mased lmao I always thought that unless there's some huge reason that the person can never know you like them...just let them know...I wasted a ridiculous amount of time trying to keep all my crushes secret, it was stupid, there were only a few that shouldn't have known, and now I really regret it...just let somebody know if you like them. Don't make the same mistake everybody else makes. Let them know.
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| Sat Oct 09, 2004 6:39 pm |
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...what mistake does everyone else make?
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rednekbob9: 3: You like anime
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| Sun Oct 10, 2004 5:25 am |
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| dillpops wrote: |
| ...what mistake does everyone else make? |
They don't reveal their feelings until it's too late, or they never reveal them. Then they look back and wonder if things would've been better had they actually said something.
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| Sun Oct 10, 2004 12:49 pm |
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| just the standard shy fare. it's actually sad how common that is. |
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| Sun Oct 10, 2004 2:38 pm |
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OK well I heard him talking about how he likes someone so...I'm not going to say anything. I had a quick cry but I feel a lot better about it all 
Thanks for all your advice people ^_^
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