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*is waiting for JP and his "humor" to give me a reality check*
Too bad. You're just going to have to learn how to deal without my "sage-like pseudo-wisdom". You depend too much upon what others say about you and tell you to do...
suddenly, this is all starting to make sense... allow me to play amature psychologist for a second here...
your depression stems from the fact that you depend too much upon others, and the conflict you feel about it. You live with your parents, which isn't a big deal, but because you still live under their roof, you're still under their rules, which will aggrivate any sane 18 year old guy. However, living with your parents also causes a problem with you being able to grow independence and a self-sufficient state of mind. You depend upon the relationships between you and your friends too much because you're still in a dependant state of mind. You haven't been allowed the ability to go out on your own and find out who you are yet, which is what is causing all the pain and confusion right now. Without knowing who you are, and without the potential to create a self-sufficience and an independent ego, you risk damaging your ability to make new friendships even as old ones falter.
Again, friendships come and friendships go. While it is commendable that one such as you invests so much personally into your friendships, you need to learn how not to become "too needy" a friend. You throw your entire emotional balance upon your friends, which is not a good idea in the first place. Friends are there to chum around with, to confide secrets with, to love, to make bad days feel better. But you also need to learn how to love yourself, and how to make your bad days better by yourself as well. Friends are a helpful part of our social growth and interaction, but they shouldn't be your complete fall-back. You need to trust in your own abilities and like you for who you are, because the tough thing about friendships is that they sometimes fade away, and you feel an emptiness inside because of all the emotional investment you put into them. That's natural, and often the more of yourself you give, the better. Just be sure that you've invested enough of yourself for yourself to keep the emotional "bank" full.
...I'm glad i moved away from my parents when i started college (in fact, in an entirely different state)...
*points and laughs at the weenie-children who are still living with their parents* _________________ "The principles you live by create the world you live in; if you change the principles you live by, you will change your world." -Blaine Lee
"I plan to live forever. So far so good." -Steven Wright
Sun Sep 28, 2003 8:05 pm
JJc14
Joined: Nov 07, 2002
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eh, i feel kinda bad making a post basically saying i got it better than you fdd, so here's a song that always picks me up when i'm feeling down:
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"Someday I'll Be Saturday Night" (Bon Jovi)
Hey, man, I'm alive
I'm takin' each day and night at a time
I'm feelin' like a Monday
But someday I'll be Saturday night...
Hey, my name is Jim, where did I go wrong?
My life's a bargain basement, all the good shit's gone
I just can't hold a job, where do I belong
I'm sleeping in my car, my dreams move on...
My name is Billy Jean, my love was bought and sold
I'm only sixteen, I feel a hundred years old
My foster daddy went, took my innocence away
The street life aint much better, but at least I get paid...
And Tuesday just might go my way
Can't get worse than yesterday
Thursdays, Fridays ain't been kind
But somehow I'll survive...
Hey, man, I'm alive
I'm takin' each day and night at a time
Yeah I'm down, but I know I'll get by...
Hey Hey Hey
Hey, man I'm gonna live my life
Like I ain't got nothin' but this roll of the dice
I'm feelin' like a Monday,
But someday I'll be Saturday night...
Now I can't say my name, and tell you where I am
I want to roll myself away, don't know if I can
I wish that I could be in some other time and place
With someone else's soul, someone else's face...
Oh, Tuesday just might go my way
Can't get worse than yesterday
Thursdays, Fridays ain't been kind
But somehow I'll survive...
Hey, man, I'm alive
I'm takin' each day and night at a time
Yeah I'm down, but I know I'll get by...
Hey Hey Hey
Hey, man gotta live my life
I'm gonna pick up all the pieces and what's left of my pride
I'm feelin' like a Monday,
But someday I'll be Saturday night...
[instrumental interlude]
Some day I'll be Saturday night
I'll be back on my feet, I'll be doin' alright
It may not be tomorrow baby, that's okay
I ain't goin' down, gonna find a way, Hey Hey
Hey, man, I'm alive
I'm takin' each day and night at a time
Yeah, I'm down, but I know I'll get by...
Hey Hey Hey
Hey, man, gotta live my life
Like I ain't got nothin' but this roll of the dice
I'm feelin' like a Monday,
But someday I'll be Saturday night...
I'm feelin' like a Monday,
But someday I'll be Saturday night...
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the words ain't much, but the song sounds great in my opinion (of course, i'm a jersey boy myself, so my words concerning the band may be a bit biased)...
oh, and...
JohnnyPsycho wrote:
*points and laughs at the weenie-children who are still living with their parents*
::sniff:: "i'm telling!"
::runs away crying:: _________________ "Life's a journey, not a destination..." -Aerosmith ('Amazing')
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Sun Sep 28, 2003 9:04 pm
Cooolcorey
Joined: Nov 08, 2002
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My parents are kind of the same way as FDD's, and it is pretty damn frustrating. I'll be 17 in October and they won't let me drive to Lincoln. Lincoln isn't that terribly big of a city and every single one of my friends can drive anywhere they want - without telling their parents - anytime they want (within reason), but not my parents. I couldn't drive to school until I was 16, which wouldn't be that much of a problem except I did have a car and around here we can drive to school when we're 14, and practically everyone else in my grade could drive. It's just little things like that that just tick me off. And I will be staying at home when I go to collage, mostly because it's a private college in my home town and the dorms are a bit on the expensive side, and it's a ten minute drive from my current house, not to mention when I move out I won't have sattelite TV, broadband internet, a decent computer, a game system, any games, or anything of value whatsoever, so I'll just stay here for a while and 'live in my parents' basement'. Literally. And I'll be damn proud of it too!
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